Month: August 2010

The Pendulum Swings

Photo by Sylvar Experts say there are two ways to escape the grip of a narcissist – remove him from your life completely, or provide him with his narcissistic supply. The first option is quite impossible to do with 3 children between us. I am tired of the second. During my 17+ years with Mr. N/A, I spent most of my time as a … Read More The Pendulum Swings


Time changes some things, but some things never change. Someone recently asked me how long I’ve been divorced. I said 5 years, and they said, oh, it’s still new. That’s a pretty different attitude (and obviously a more experienced soul) than the guy on who’s just separated and claims he’s ready to “move on.” I think it’s true. It’s still new. It took … Read More Ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-ch-changes